Each for Equal 2020

Happy International Women’s Day 2020. Another year of celebrating women’s empowerment and this year’s theme is each for equal.

To me this theme is about making empowerment everybody’s issue, challenging assumptions, bia’s the status quo and most importantly ensuring that men and woman collaborate and work together to achieve equality.

Every year I am challenged by someone about why we need IWD day. The best way I can respond to this is to share data from my 2018 Ambition survey.

This was an industry first survey with over 200 responses, we know that the issue of equality, parity and diversity is one that will be solved if men and women work together, when leaders make deliberate decisions on who they hire and promote and most importantly are unaccepting of inappropriate behavior.

According to the survey some of the issues that women are facing are conscious and unconscious bias, bullying, parity, balancing work and family, lack of respect in the workplace, managing stress and loss of confidence; sadly none of these behaviors lead to equality.

We all know that one of the ways that we can start to make changes is to promote women into executive or leadership roles.

According to the survey 70% of women were interested in directorship or shareholding however only 36% had opportunities to buy in. Opportunities are either nonexistent or women simply are overlooked. Interestingly 83% were interested in a leadership role yet we have a distinct lack of women in such roles across the country.

Alarmingly over 52% of the women who responded had experienced inappropriate behavior in the workplace. We have recently seen many women share their experiences on this issue, my call to leaders is that the standard you walk past is the standard you accept. Make sure that if behavior is being reported to you on an ongoing basis that you pay attention or if you see it you call it out.

With each for equal being the IWD theme for 2020 let’s review what women are saying on how leaders and other women can work together to change the current paradigm

Understand women’s ambitions

Our survey showed that only 22% of respondents actually have a business plan, if leaders are not sitting down and understanding what women in their organization want then you won’t connect or understand their ambitions.

Women often require support, sponsors to open the door for them to step through into leadership roles. For many women in our industry who are in leadership roles today, a male leader opened the door for most of them. Imagine if this became the norm across the industry?

Equal billing at conferences

I recently saw a well-known trainer running an all-male leadership panel, imagine if those same men had asked the question – have you got a female leader, I can suggest a couple to you who would be great to bring a different perspective and point of view to the discussion.

Acknowledge there is an issue

How can you not? We don’t see women in leadership roles, and what you can’t see you can’t be. The future generations will demand this, and companies will lose talent if they don’t make these changes.

Women need to step up as well

We need to find a way to step up, to ask for what we want, and if we don’t get it to have the courage to find it elsewhere. If you are talented someone will recognize it and give you a place to belong to.

The boys club

The boys club exists because leaders allow it to. By not making deliberate hiring decisions, accepting inappropriate behavior and not promoting talented women into leadership roles we do become the boy’s club.

To change this, we need to keep the conversation going and men and women need to stand together to accept that this is an issue, the lack of diversity and parity is unacceptable and agree on how change can be made.

Each for equal is a great theme. It should make us reflect on if we don’t want equality and parity for each other than what do we want – inequality?

That if we don’t step up and make these changes now, our industry will become less attractive to talent.

Equality in our workplace and community is something that we are all responsible for. Happy IWD day.

 

 

#Islandgirl principles for becoming the best version of yourself in 2020

  1. Leave behind a legacy

  2. Sassy is sexy

  3. There is only one you, be the best version of yourself

  4. Know what you want and go after it

  5. Be unapologetically ambitious

  6. Be open to opportunities, you never know where it may lead to

  7. If opportunities don’t appear, create them

  8. If someone says no to you, it’s because you have not given them a compelling enough reason to say yes

  9. Be greedy about your dreams

  10. Never compromise your values, it may make others happy when you do but you won’t be

  11. Failures are lessons, learn, get up and go again

  12. Be Bold

  13. Have a tribe around you who will be honest and lift you

  14. Know that you will never make everyone happy

  15. Laugh, love and live life, you only get one

  16. Give back

  17. Don’t forget where you came from

  18. Tap into past experiences, many lessons were learnt there

  19. Be grateful for what you have everyday

  20. Take care of your mind, body and soul, love yourself

#Islandgirl principals for becoming the best version of yourself in 2020

#Islandgirl principals for becoming the best version of yourself in 2020

EPIC 2020

We are about to enter a new decade and this has made me think about all of what I have acheived thus far and what I want to achieve moving forward.

Frankly for many people including me, 2019 has been a shit year and I for one will not be sorry to see it end.

How can we start the new decade with a bang and make sure it is EPIC, here are some of my thoughts you may find helpful. (I feel I have to warn you that EPIC is going to be my new word for 2020).

If like me you had a challening 2019, make sure that the past stays in the past, learn the lessons however I wont let it stop me from doing anything new. Just becuase it didnt work last time doesn’t mean it wont work this time

Watch your self talk... the stories you tell yourself, because we often base these on past negative expereinces, what we could have done better.

I am going to be kind to myself, as Tanja often says in her sessions more wand and less whip.

Its important that you know your currency what you are worth to yourself, your partner, family, friends and at work. Remember life will pay you the price you ask for.

Im going to spoil myself, self gifting is awesome buy something special for yourself from you....

I will increase my learning by doing something really different to what I do every day.

I know a lot of people however I am going to focus on make my circle tighter, staying connected with people in 2020 where we are fiercely loyal to each other and will have each others backs.

To make make even more epic ripples on things that are important not just to me but future generations of women

Often I review what I want to do more of, well this year I am also going to do a review of what I want to do less of. Things like, less time on social media, less time cleaning my house, less time in meetings…

I use December as the pre planning stage, last weekend I cleaned out my waredrobe, this weekend I will declutter my bathroom draws, then my kitchen, whatever that looks like for you start doing it now, not in Jan, you really want to come back to work after the holidays organised and refreshed with everything in place.

I would love you to take the time to plan your 2020 goals, start with your personal goals first, business will flow into this, be ok to put yourself first. The best advise my dad has ever given me, and he loves to give me advise, was that if I did the right thing by myself I would always do the right thing by others.

Its a bit like putting your oxygen mask on first before you help anyone else.

Most importanly once you are ready to write down your epic goals for 2020, be selfish when you write these, put yourself as a prioirty, ask yourself if 2020 is going to be EPIC, where you will grow, deepen connections, increase your currency, where you will be loved, cherished and reach the end of 2020 having had an epically successful year what would that look like.

Then once you have these written down put them somewhere where you can see them every day. This will keep you on track and remember opportunties will come your way, be open to them, be flexible and agile in how you approach them.

Often when you start to focus and shake things up doors will open that you never imagined would open.